• The Tapestry •
As someone who invites more conversation about death and grief than most—both in and outside of work—I get to hear a lot of stories. While these stories are often weighted with loss, at their core they revolve around deep, enduring love. Recalling and sharing memories becomes a way of maintaining connection to what—or who—we’ve lost.
This is the magic we live among. Our memories are portals to times past.
Objects carry this same power. Whether we are making, engaging with, or simply holding them, the things we surround ourselves with shape our reality. When we create in honor of someone, their presence lives on in us. When we wear a loved one’s shirt or wrap ourselves in their blanket, the evidence of their life immerses us. Their absence becomes presence again—for a moment.
I believe textiles are especially potent in this way. Cloth is a deeply intimate medium—we are always in contact with it. It touches our skin, shapes our days, absorbs our tears.
I’ve been lucky to hear and read many stories about the ways textiles keep people tethered to what they love, even across insurmountable distances like death.
Maybe you’ll tell us yours and be a part of The Tapestry…
Kelly
October 12, 2025
I wear my husband’s hoodie from Cook the Farm in Sicily. I saved all of his tshirts and plan to have a friend make patchwork quilts for my girls.
I think the bigger tapestry I created was a weaving together of life experiences during our family’s Cancer Journey. I recorded and posted well over 200 videos telling the story of chronic pain, cancer, death, and widowhood. I recorded the good, the bad, and everything in between. I recall stories of slavery era tapestries that were underground roadmaps for those who knew how to read them. I’d like to think that those recorded posts I shared on YouTube were a roadmap for those navigating equally challenging times.
• The Tapestry •
• Tell Us Your Story •
• how are textiles a part of your narrative? •
• Have you created something out of sorrow? •
• How is something you have made or wear a reflection or expression of who you are? •
• How do the textiles around you define a part of your life? •
• Does a material object keep you close to someone you have lost? •